Today I want to share an important update about Darren and Lois Forsdyke. (For those who don’t know, Darren has been our Director of Operations at Welcome Church since January 2018.)
After much prayer and seeking God over a number of months, they’ve sensed that He’s leading them into a new season, and that means Darren will be leaving his employment at Welcome Church later this month as they look to relocate. Here’s the story:
Seeking God
As a church we started 2026 with 21 days of prayer and, during that time, Darren and Lois committed themselves to seeking God.
Much to their surprise, during that period God spoke to them in a couple of ways that directed them to start considering that their time at Woking was coming to an end and that He was opening a path for them to move to Havant, in Hampshire, to support what is a fairly new, small site of Grace Church, and is also close to their two daughters and sons-in-law, and to their three grandchildren – and I know that Darren and Lois are hugely passionate about the family.
They wanted to approach this carefully and to hear from God clearly, so over the next few months Darren and Lois visited the Havant Church on a Sunday morning, and even spoke with the leaders there and with me personally. Everything looked like this was God calling them to make this move, but we expected it would probably be in a couple of years’ time.
Recently, at the end of another week of personal prayer and fasting, God spoke to them again very clearly asking them to go now – trusting in His protection and guidance – and not to wait until they’d put all the pieces of the puzzle in place. As a church we’ve therefore agreed to release Darren from his employment with us at the end of August and to send them well as they seek to fulfil God’s call on their lives.
Darren and Lois now busy making plans to sell their house and move, and to look for new employment and everything else that’s needed for this kind of step; as well as working with the Operations Team here to facilitate a smooth handover.

Leaving a huge gap
I’m personally very grateful to Darren and Lois, as I’m sure we all are, for all they’ve done since moving here in 2018. I’ve actually worked with Darren for 21 years now: first when we were planting Grace Church in Chichester, and then again when he and Lois moved to Woking – at my invitation – to help with all that needed doing here. I know they’re both going to leave a huge gap, and for me it feels a bit like I’m losing a limb.
The truth is, Darren has worked relentlessly and faithfully behind the scenes to manage all we do as a church: meetings, buildings, finances, events, and lots more. The fact that we’re meeting here in this chapel and have the Community Hub open next door owes a huge amount to Darren who played a key role in both projects.
Lois has also been very involved in our pastoral care system, and in supporting single mums, and has supported countless women 1-2-1 during difficult times. Together they introduced and ran our Freedom in Christ course each year, something that’s always been a great passion of theirs. Through this and the 1-2-1 support they’ve given people, they’ve helped hundreds of people understand their identity in Christ and what it means to be a child of God.
We will miss Darren and Lois and I am sure you will all join me in wishing them the very best as they follow God into His next step for them.
They’ll still be with us on some Sundays as they seek to relocate, so there will be lots of opportunities for you to talk to them and show them your love and appreciation before they actually leave us.
Moving Forward
While we’ll miss Darren and Lois greatly, we genuinely believe that following God’s leading is always the right thing to do, and we’re delighted to send them with our love, our blessing and our prayers.
While this change naturally leaves a gap in our Operations Team, we’re confident that God knows exactly what our next season looks like. There may be one or two bumps along the way as responsibilities are handed over, so thank you in advance for your patience and grace if something takes a little longer than usual.
We’re already prayerfully considering what the future shape of our Operations Team should look like, and we’ll keep you updated as those plans develop.
Above all, I’d love us as a church family to pray for Darren and Lois over the coming weeks as they prepare for a significant move and an exciting new chapter. Please do take every opportunity to encourage them and thank them for all they’ve invested into Welcome Church over the past 8 and a half years.

















